i remember a wedding on the coast of maine, for a second cousin. i remember taking pictures of everyone on disposable cameras they’d set out at every table.

around age 12 or 13 i went to a wedding of a cousin (who later got divorced, but has since remarried). i remember it rained just before the ceremony. i wore a tux, possibly because i was an usher?

i remember my grandfather getting married to ruth. i remember the weather being very warm.

at age 20 i went to the wedding of the previous cousin’s sibling. i remember the ceremony being simple. i remember throwing a frisbee outside with my brother and a second cousin towards the end of the reception. i remember an unfathomably long line forming for the buffet.